Holder of two diplomas: DUT SRC then a Professional License E-Marketing / E-Commerce. Writer for Expertpublic.fr in the Finance, Auto and Home category.
Dating sites are more and more numerous in France. Their success is undeniable and the most famous platforms have millions of registered members. The goal of people who take out a subscription is to find a life partner or… just overnight, depending on the type of site. But whether it’s one or the other, you have to be able to stand out from the crowd in order to flirt and build a relationship. We give you some tips.
On all the best serious dating sites, you have to fill in a profile, which often details your physical characteristics (height, weight, eye color, etc.), but also your psychological profile and your expectations regarding the site and what he offers. It is important to complete this profile carefully.
If you have writing skills, don’t be afraid to put a little humor in your description. Of course, this should be kept subtle to show that you are primarily looking for a serious relationship, if this is the case.
The photos you are going to put must be carefully chosen. They aim to showcase you. It is important to know that on a dating site with millions of profiles and in a society adept at heavy zapping, you are so far only one face among thousands of others. A profile without a photo decreases your chance that your profile will be viewed by more than 70%!
You need to bring a touch of seduction, already, with this photo. It must characterize you. However, do not put a photo of yourself, dating back 10 years. Lying about his age and his physical appearance will get you nowhere if you meet a real person. The pot aux roses will be revealed in seconds and you will lose all credibility. Highlight your first asset on your face. If you have a beautiful smile, crisp dimples, then make sure that it stands out. We’re talking about the color of your eyes or the way you wear them, ladies, so show it. Your square jaw or your rascal gaze is wreaking havoc, gentlemen, that’s what others must see.
Just as there’s no point in lying about how you look, don’t lie about your profession or your hobbies.
It is possible to give a little creativity to an answer that can do you disservice, without lying. Thus, if you have lost your job, it is necessarily less selling to mark “unemployed” than “in retraining”.
Don’t say you like to read if you just follow the furniture assembly instructions. You are not a music lover if you listen to the music in the elevator to your office every day. You are not a handyman if you have managed to open a box of cassoulet. Do not invent a fantastic life for yourself if your greatest pleasure is to follow a series with a cat on your knees.