Rather, he should have reacted to the message this girl had sent him and said:
“Glad to know that you stopped karate, I’m sure you won’t come in a kimono the day we meet”
With this mistake, he does not put the girl back in a good emotional state. He just stopped the game too dryly. It surprised the girl, but in a bad way.
In fact, when you are faced with a potential conversation breakdown, you have several options:
“My stomach is crying out for famine, I have to make myself dinner, yes I am a man who can do one thing at a time. By the way, when I come back, I have a very important question for you! “
The idea is to tease. In this example I give him a smile in the first part of the message while making fun of myself. In the second part I create tension through the teasing. And if you’re wondering what all-important question you might ask her then do like me:
“I hope you don’t find my question out of place, but are you more left or right in the bed? “
This is how to surprise a girl and make her really want to continue with you.
We can clearly see later that the messages are much more spaced out, whereas they sent messages to each other quite quickly in the first part of the discussion, there the pace changed. It shows that she is less involved, more distant. So yes she answers, but between the lines it means:
“Man, had to beat the iron while it was hot. There I am cooled ”.
Thomas ignores the girl’s state of mind and continues to conduct the discussion. You shouldn’t just read what she writes, but you should also take the time to interpret it.
Dating sites are there for you to meet people, we agree. So there comes a time when you’re going to talk about meeting you and her around a nice time, that’s how romantic or fleeting relationships are born.
Thomas naturally comes to talk about a meeting. Since he does not realize his mistakes, he conducts the discussion normally. Just after the appointment proposal, she told him no in disguise through her message:
When you propose to a girl to meet you and she doesn’t say yes or no, she’s trying to drown the fish, in fact she is disguising her NO. She doesn’t want to meet you. Above all, do not insist as Thomas did, he tried everything trying to get his phone number but found himself like an asshole with no more cards to play. The more you insist, the more rationally you will try to convince her. Whereas the girls act more according to their emotions.
“It’s cool chatting with you, but the idea of meeting you isn’t very exciting. We should better continue discussing and we’ll see afterwards ”.
If you are in this situation, know that it is all your fault, and indirectly your way of dealing with the girl is not right.