As in face-to-face dating, there are some mistakes you shouldn’t make on dating sites. Here are 5 mistakes women tend to make. If you can avoid these pitfalls, you will greatly increase your chances of success on the web.
Have you ever sat in front of your computer, reading lots of disappointing emails, wondering why no one good writing to you?
You ogle at the list of your favorites, wanting to talk to them, but you stay true to the tradition: it’s the men who accost the women, yes, even on the internet.
You still don’t want to sound like a desperate bachelor, after all, what man would want a woman in need enough to write him first!
If you have a cool photo, an original profile, and inspiration in your emails, the vast majority of men will stop any other activity to answer you. So don’t hesitate.
You don’t like to be lied to. Nobody likes it. Yet on the Internet, you have had some nasty surprises: first Paul, officially 6’8 ”, and actually 6’8 ” on a donkey. Then Eric, “painter”, but who in reality only paints factory facades for a construction company… With these lies, it’s hard to want to see them again… But have you never done the same? ?
On average, a woman adds 2-3 centimeters, and takes off 4 or 5 kilos. You too want to be given a chance; you also wish not to be judged before the meeting … If these reasons are enough to make an honest woman lie, they are also enough to draw an honest man into a lie.
Have you ever spent weeks chatting with someone online, only to find out on your first date that they were a “looser”? Probably, like all the women who have practiced dating a bit.
Suddenly, you promised yourself not to waste any more time. You went through the “date” phase more quickly to see what your virtual flirtations were really worth…. And at the end of your uninteresting 20th date, you surely wondered “but why am I still on this site?” “
On the contrary, online dating is made for a smooth development of relationships: we get to know each other, we look for each other, and only after that do we meet. Otherwise, you might as well go find a guy in a bar!
The only way to enjoy a date with a guy you meet online is to cut down on the number of dates. It’s more enjoyable to go to a successful dinner once a week, than to have a 7-8 every night of the week!
Have you ever felt like you attracted all of the worst men on the site? You want a good looking, honest and funny man, and you only get emails from men who “love cocooning, good wine and walks on the beach” or retirees who offer to pay you for your vacation in exchange for your company.
So, to sort it out, you decide to specify in your profile “if you are over 50, depressed, deeply boring or have any addiction, go your way.”
Yet these same men continue to contact you! So what can you do to stop these parasites that can’t read? Nothing !
Ignore them, but don’t try to “scare” them. They’ll write to you anyway. They have the right to do so just as you have the right to erase their emails without reading them.
As a quality woman, you are going to interest all kinds of men. Your job will not be to scare away the bad people, but to attract the good ones. And a profile with warnings against losers will only make you look bad.
Even though you know how hard it is to find someone, you signed up for a month-long subscription. A month! You’re going to fall in love before you get your next phone bill, sure, you can tell.
More seriously, by doing this you are giving yourself too short (if not unrealistic) time to meet someone good.
It’s understandable that you don’t want to date online until the end of your life, but want to find a husband within thirty working days!
It’s hard to meet people in “real life” so give the dating site a real chance.